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最有把握的成功之道,不是「避免失敗」,而是「避免犯愚蠢的錯誤」

最有把握的成功之道,不是「避免失敗」,而是「避免犯愚蠢的錯誤」

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之前曾寫文章分享一位美國部落客的「成功之道」。他的成功之道,就是「避免做錯事」(stop doing stupid shit)
他舉例他自己年輕時想學「下棋」,請教一位很會下棋的大學同學,怎樣才能讓棋藝快速進步?這位同學告訴他,在棋盤上面「不要露出弱點」,就贏了一大半!這傢伙恍然大悟,跑去買了幾本下棋的書,專心研究下棋的時候何時會被「封殺」、「將軍」,然後記在心裡,以後不要讓自己做這些錯誤的動作,一心求在棋盤上活得「愈久愈好」,才過了一個月,再次和人下棋,竟然打敗了玩棋多年的老手!
他再舉例,當年他練琴八年,換鋼琴老師,新老師上任第一件事先將他的一些「壞習慣」改掉,譬如練琴的態度或是彈琴的姿勢,讓他可以更專心在「穩定」他的演奏品質。他說,鋼琴比賽比的是誰「不出錯」,不出錯的不見得是彈得最好,但有可能因為錯誤最少而贏了。
在我失意的時候,和前輩在咖啡廳請益,其中有一位前輩曾對我說:
「如果Mr.6是一家店,」他說:「只要這家店『不倒』,遲早會成功。」
很有道理!因為,成功得要靠機運,時機到了、運氣來了,躺著都會被浪水推到天上去,然而,這種成功的時機點,是無法被控制的。
很棒的是,成功雖然不能控制,「避免失敗」卻是可以控制的。聽了前輩給我的建議,我從此每個動作皆步步為營,避免失敗,避免再跌倒,積極的布局,等待成功的那天。
成功之道,就是「避免做錯事」

這成功之道,我好想好像告訴所有台灣許多想「開店」的創業家!
為什麼?
你我都可以看到,住家附近、公司附近、台灣各城市的街頭巷尾,有些店面,就是不斷上演「開了又倒,倒了又開」的戲碼。
創業家生平第一次開店,總是懷著一股興奮、熱情、理想,著急的注入資金大肆裝潢成自己要的樣子,二百萬花出去,半年後黯淡收攤,也當了別人的「貴人」,因為後面的那手以四分之一成本承接這麼漂亮的店面,他自己反而必須再熬五年才能恢復元氣,重新開始。
最可惜的是,每一次的熄燈,背後都是一個跌倒的故事,但後面的創業家,卻從來不怎麼願意去研究看看為何前人會失敗,總天真的以為自己會「不一樣」,於是,同樣的錯誤一犯再犯,店也一倒再倒。
「誰知道蓋捷運會這麼可怕?」店家在租此地之前早就知道這裡要蓋捷運,但還是貿然貪便宜就租下去了,沒想到捷運施工真的很厲害,把一個這麼棒的店弄到無人光顧。
「誰知道這麼漂亮的風景沒人看?」店家不知道,再漂亮的風景但地點落在三不管,也不敵一個普普的風景但地點就落在黃金地段。
「誰知道定價影響這麼大?」店家當時賣的料理怎麼便宜都沒人買,後來接手的新店家卻將每項都漲價、座位減半,突然變得高朋滿座、天天排隊,千金難買早知道!
或許,我們應該先認清一個事實:開店,就是要先「避免倒店」
只要「不倒」,遲早會成功。
只要不再犯之前的創業家所犯的錯誤,你的成功機會就大很多很多。
今起不要犯錯,極力避免失敗,然後,這一小撮聰明人,會在最後成功的山頂上相會!

Source:http://mr6.cc/?p=8222
美國部落格全文:http://jinfiesto.posterous.com/how-to-seem-good-at-everything-stop-doing-stu
美國部落格截圖:http://i.imgur.com/uCP72.jpg

後記:
1. 何謂"stupid shit"?
What is stupid shit?
You might be able to do what is considered "sophisticated". A piano and chess analogy has been used, but what about something different like sales? You may know and understand the entire sales process with adaptable sales techniques to your customer's needs. Great! Do you that have your contact information? That's stupid shit.
Every level of expertise recognizes what is a stupid mistake. If you cannot recognize stupid mistakes, your goal is to get up to speed in your endeavor first. When you hit a wall, look for stupid mistakes again. This is great advice for improving your performance in any thing. The counter to this is that you may stifle creativity for higher performance. It seems creativity usually comes about from making stupid mistakes.

sometimes to become better at anything we have to "unlearn", go back to the basics. Stupid shit comes from deeply engrained bad habits and to be able to perceive them we sometimes need a shock, an event that makes your realize that you know nothing;then, the cycle starts again. Its TAO, it s everywhere and nowhere at the same time.


如果大家有留意紅字的意思的話,其實"stupid shit"意指不好的習慣

2. 其實有"stupid shit"也不是大問題,不去嘗試然後解決問題才是大問題哦

It doesn't seem like "not doing stupid shit" has anything to do with it. It sounds like you just hit plateaus. It happens to all of us, which is why despite typing all the time, we never get better. This was recently documented by Joshua Foer, but I'll summarize... You got better because you paid attention to getting better. You read the books, you worked with a new teacher, and those two opportunities broke you out of bad habits.
If you want to get better at typing, you type as fast as you can, and keep making mistakes. Eventually your brain will consciously or unconsciously detect patterns and make corrections.

You didn't stop doing stupid shit, you just learned to overcome plateaus.

plateaus - to reach a state or level of little or no growth or decline, especially to stop increasing or progressing; remain at a stable level of achievement; level off: After a period of uninterrupted growth, sales began to plateau.

From http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/plateau


何出此言?因為都未嘗試就已經說失敗,這說不過去吧..........
而且"stupid shit"啥的根本無法避免的 倒不如把它克服吧...
很多時創意的源頭都是來自"stupid shit"就是了...

總結:
人沒可能事事做到完美的(除非你是火星來的......= =) 所以放膽去嘗試才是重點
PS 反正有錯肯定有人跑出來指正你的錯處就是了...(拍

失敗是沒法避免的;避免失敗最好的辦法就是不去做——這樣永遠不會失敗,當然也一無所獲。就像lz說的,要去放膽嘗試
凡是收穫都是有成本的,問題在於控制成本。我覺得可以把愚蠢的錯誤理解為可以避免的錯誤(借用先前的比喻,即可以減少的成本)。通過學習別人或自己的經驗,不再犯重複的錯誤,雖不能避免失敗,但至少可以減少失敗的幾率


From lone_wolf@TSDM



這理念同樣可套用在論壇的 你們懂的
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